You have to take into consideration Cat, that when we democratically choose a leader, we are choosing him/her knowing that they will make decisions for us, sometimes very unpopular decisions. We know this when we vote. Thats what leaders are for. Just because they make unpopular decisions doesn't make it dictatorial. If they became a dictator, it wouldn't be so simple as to vote them out as quickly as they were voted in.
Never be overwhelmed by decisions, just consider the right ones and your options will be far fewer.