"Please pray for Anna and her Health"

[BeartheCross]

Anna has seemed to be falling apart lately with all the things she has been doing.

And her mother is not making this much easier. Anna is like a full time Nurse with her mom without the hospital equipment needed.All day her mom is having Anna to be her Nurse.

Her brother is now Married but still trying to depend too much on Anna. Him and his spouse are asking for Annas help.

Then Annas sister comes along and asks her to help her Dad.

Anna is in a lot of pain and very tired. She is doing way much more than she should be doing. And no one will leave here alone.

I tried to explain to Anna that Dom is married now.He and his spouse need to learn how to deal with their own life. and the concentration should be with your mom me and you and that is enough.

Anna is having trouble with her eyes and I think she needs permanent wearing glasses for all times.They just made her a reading pair.

Anna has been suffering from fibromyalgia.Anna is crying from all the pain and work she is going through..

Please pray for Anna.She really needs it. I keep asking her to slow down but she wont.

I want her brother and spouse to move on instead of using her.Her brother especially uses her. Dave has tried to help.
Yes they are a gay couple we could not stop them. They got married on their own. Anna is the one hurting most now she needs help from GOD. all prayers are apreciated.

[canny]

will pray for Anna and her health and situation Trebor,,, sometimes just dragging yaself out of bed in the morning is so difficult. But when you think of who is out there and needs a smile to get through the day , you keep doing it...... Now its time for Anna to take some time I will pray that she does.

[ByHisGrace]

Trebor I will pray for Anna .......... it sound like all her family are very selfish and are using and abusing her kindness. She has got to be strong and say NO. God does not expect us to be door mats.

[Monique]

A most sobering thought how some people struggle each day.
I will pray for Anna Trebor, and make a committment not to whinge about anything.
Love and prayers to your family
M

[Faith]

Originally Posted by BeartheCross

Anna has seemed to be falling apart lately with all the things she has been doing.

And her mother is not making this much easier. Anna is like a full time Nurse with her mom without the hospital equipment needed.All day her mom is having Anna to be her Nurse.

Her brother is now Married but still trying to depend too much on Anna. Him and his spouse are asking for Annas help.

Then Annas sister comes along and asks her to help her Dad.

Anna is in a lot of pain and very tired. She is doing way much more than she should be doing. And no one will leave here alone.

I tried to explain to Anna that Dom is married now.He and his spouse need to learn how to deal with their own life. and the concentration should be with your mom me and you and that is enough.

Anna is having trouble with her eyes and I think she needs permanent wearing glasses for all times.They just made her a reading pair.

Anna has been suffering from fibromyalgia.Anna is crying from all the pain and work she is going through..

Please pray for Anna.She really needs it. I keep asking her to slow down but she wont.

I want her brother and spouse to move on instead of using her.Her brother especially uses her. Dave has tried to help.
Yes they are a gay couple we could not stop them. They got married on their own. Anna is the one hurting most now she needs help from GOD. all prayers are apreciated.

Isaiah 41:10.

10.Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

The Lord is near to you both and he is listening to every word spoken and he knows every need. All you need to do is ask him...
No special words needed, just the Lords prayer. When you feel the need or are feeling tired or insecure. Then just pray the prayer Christ taught us and leave it to God. You will see how obedience to what Christ taught will bring the necessary results in your lifes. Just trust him.

Love Faith.xx

[Sweetrainbow]

Thank You all for the concern that you have in regards for my health.

But there's more to this than was mentioned.

Yes even though Trebor's post is correct he doesn't see
the reasons I do what I do no matter how hard it is for me.

First I truly believe that God didn't give to me what he thought I couldn't handle.
Maybe I'm not handling it the right way or making it a little more difficult.

But my view is that as long as it gets done.

When I do some of these things I'm doing it's to make it that Mom can concentrate more on what she needs to do and not worry about the other things going on.
Maybe it's wrong I don't know? If it is then am I doubting why God has me to it in the first place?

Second Trebor is having a tough time dealing that I can't be with him 24 hrs a day and then says I don't spend enough time with him.

I believe God is trying to make me stronger to know what I can exactly handle whether it involves anyone else or not.
Nevertheless like usual I appreciate all the Love here that I'm receiving from my friends here.

Please don't worry I know God will help me to do the best I can do all the time and that he will not leave even in my darkest moments.
God Bless You All.

[Wabco]

Anna, I will pray for you.

Could you get a nurse/ home help in to help with your tasks?

Or perhaps someone else, a family member to share the load?

Jesus doesn't want to make our burdens heavy. Other people might love to help out if you ask them....

It is difficult for me to commment, as I don't know your personal circumstances (families are complicated at the best of times ) but please don't run yourself into the ground.

As I have had many years experience in care work, I have seen that the unpaid Carer gets worn out and even ill sometimes, more than the person who is cared for.

[Sweetrainbow]

Wabco Thank You
To answer your questions,
My Mom was denied personal homecare nurse to come in.
She has a physical therapist and a occupational therapist that come 2 and 3 times a week.
And she has a nurse that comes to take vitals.

As for family to come in to take help, as bad as this sounds my brother lives here with us and to count on him is like saying that I will hit the lottery to hire someone.

A lot of things have just been my nature as far as what everyone considers burdens.
I have noticed that everyone has mostly said about that I need to learn to say "NO". I will admit that's not easy for me but over the weekend I've come to realize that is enough is enough and had my sister hear the word "NO" first.
Mind you she knows what I have taken on here at home but now she also wants to take care of my Dad also.
I can't handled him also and now I feel the guilt because I feel like I'm choosing parents.
But when I look at the situation it is not even in my means to help him.

I don't drive and he lives far from me. She does drive and lives closer to him. He's at the point with his Alzheimer that he doesn't trust anyone.
I can't handled my own parent not trusting me.

So I go and visit him and let him see exactly that I'm not doing anything.

Now as far as taking care of myself I now ask for prayers that I can finally succeed in doing so.
Tonight I took a long hard look at myself and read all the answers that everyone has posted , not only here but on other forums.
Everyone has basically said the same thing.
Everyone can't be wrong with what they are saying.

I told Trebor tonight that starting tomorrow Oct.13 I am going to start to put myself back together and do only what I know I can.

I myself need to lose weight and plenty of it.
When I was married two years ago I was losing weight just fine.

I find now that I eat for the wrong reasons and the wrong food to boot.
I eat when stressed, I eat when depressed badly, I eat just for comfort.

I was never like this before and now I need the old me back again, this time new.
Please pray for this to be successful because I never can stick to anything lately. I need this for me.

Thank You All. Love, Anna

[eddybear]

(((((Anna)))) you and your family will remain in our prayers.

There's a lot in that post I want to reply to, but I'll limit myself to one item. Comfort eating? I know about that one. It's good to try to eat healthily, I pray you will be successful, but don't beat yourself up about it if you have days when you say "I've had enough of this, just pass me the chocolate!". Or if you are just too tired to cook, so order a McDonalds instead. As you've said in your post, you can only do what you can do, and that applies to eating healthily as well.

[Wabco]

still praying for you Anna.

With God's help you will get there - losing the weight.

((((anna))))

You are very precious to God.