Yes, I'm grasping what you mean now and I agree.
Although in answer to this,,,
Is being Welsh something to be proud of ?
I've never really grasped the concept of people being proud of something they had no hand in. You know what I mean ? I just don't understand how someone can be proud of " just " being born somewhere because to my mind, just being born in a particular place isn't really an achievement in itself.
Never be overwhelmed by decisions, just consider the right ones and your options will be far fewer.